Its 1st of August today and we are done with more than half of 2019 and it is now the right time to review the month and check on self and understand how far have taken our dreams and how much have we worked on self-growth and self-love.
So let’s do something together.
Let us make a list of all the things that we did year-round that we remember and feel is an important part of what you are today and how you feel at the moment. These memories or events or memories can be anything. It can be good, bad, awkward, happy, heartbreaking or even things that made you potentially angry.
when you write this beside every event mentioned write about its impact and whether it had a positive or negative impact on you. Not only this kind of self-analysis will help you understand yourself and your growth better but will also help you create a guide that will help you avoid things that break you and list out things that have nurtured you as an individual.
If you want you can create two different lists one for self and the other solely for business or work life or Education. But this at this point it is super essential as it will decide a lot about how will your future years’ functions and what exactly needs to be done.
I know its a time taking process but do not forget it an investment on self and the growth that you have been looking for.
So, ladies and gentlemen lets together hustle, grow and be our support system. Let us together create the change within our-self and around our-self so that we create a life that we have been wanting and make life grand.
you can also share it with me on my email address: firstname.lastname@example.org
All the best, love!
Walk Into My Life
And hold my trembling fingers
Steady my shaky hands
Pamper this terrified heart, my dear
I fear love today…
Sit beside me today
And listen to my untold plead
Sing a lullaby to me
Let the fear in me go to sleep
I fear love today…
Hold my hand wantingly
And let me draw circles on your palm
Caress me in your arms
Let the spell of your breath dance
I fear love today….
So yesterday on my writing account I did a rant!
I guy DM’ed me about how a girl with curves is extremely exciting and it certainly brought back to me memories of all creepy DMs I have ever gotten.
From “hey, sexy” to dick pics to creepy stalkers.
While I shared my views on it, the most common response was, “ignore them”
Well, the problem is this ignorance, not raising the voice against the wrong is the biggest wrong… Please raise your voice. If you are a writer, write about it, if you have received any such DM, share the screenshot. Get the account down and if it’s too much, you can file a complaint with cyber crime branch.
PLEASE DO NOT IGNORE!
And most importantly It’s not about what is bothering me and what is not. I give zero fucks about what people think, but, I believe that our ignorance towards this behavior is somewhere giving them the power to continue. They enjoy the ignorance and so now is the high time to raise a voice.
And I request all of you to do so!
Tell me your story!
Tonight I will knock your door
with my heart in my hand
Let me in or throw me out
Tonight I will knock your door
And bring with me broad daylight
Let the sun witness the love you hide!
Tonight I will knock your door
And bring with me some stars in my lamp
Let these little one know what real light looks like
Tonight I will knock your door
And bring with me Tansen’s Sitar
Let him the see the music of your voice
Tonight I will Knock your door
And just in case if you decide not to open it!
I will sit at your door for the rest of my life
and keep singing to them
the songs I have written in your wait tonight!!
I believe that many of us have had faced this at some of the other points in our lives. Maybe in a relationship or in a friendship or probably with an object. We tend to fall out of love with something or someone we have been obsessing about for a very long period of time. And the reason I write is to tell you that it happens. That falling out of love is a thing and it can happen to you too even if it hasn’t happened yet!
So it is very recent where my friend was talking about how she has fallen out of love with the guy she had been dating since almost 5years. It started with, “It does not feel the same anymore.” and then she went on for hours about everything wrong in that relationship that she was completely into at least a few months back!
So to people who have fallen out of love and cannot confess, here is a little piece for you guys!
” Say it to your partner, be gentle with your words and do not let your irritation that you have for your own emotion come in between. Tell them what you feel and set them free if you think there is no going back to being in love. Hiding what you feel just because you do not want to hurt the person and then doing it in an amplified manner, however, in the end, is not a real solution.”
It is going to be difficult to explain, but it is necessary!
And to people who are going to face this conversation, here is something for you!
” You are going to hate that person for a very long period of time and it going to hurt but darling forcing someone to reflect your emotion with the same intensity did no good ever. You will have to listen and understand. I know that it is easy to say and harder to face it in real but it is wrong to give your heart false hopes too.”
And no matter what, feel free to write me, if nothing more, I can at least listen to my reading family!
And above all, believe in yourself!
Have you ever dreamt of achieving something and ended up wanting to give up?
Have ever thought that you have reached the crux and now there is nothing more left to dig?
Did you a goal that excited you but now no more seems achievable?
Let me tell you this one thing friend!
You were only 1 millimeter away when you gave up,
You had to dig only 1 more millimeter to reach your goal,
You had to walk only one more millimeter to be where you wanted to be!
But baby you gave up, you lacked passion!
It is still not late, you can still try! We can start from the very beginning. It is going to be hard. Easy is not an option, you may be 25 right now and you have to take up a job to make some money but your dreams will be sacrificed if you do a job. At 40 suddenly giving up everything and following your dream is going to take a lot of strength. But you gotta do what you gotta do!
You have to make your decision as per your dream and all these decisions must be reflected in your actions and these actions will take you 1 millimeter closer to your goal!
Find out the people who do it, see how they do it better than you! what do they have in them that make them better than the rest of the world!
This is a good time to start, stop waiting for perfect time, day or moment! Now is the time! No opportunities must be wasted! there are 86,400 seconds in a day and that is a lot of time if you make a good use of it!
So keep moving, remember you are only 1 millimeter away!
While I will always here to listen to you, to help you grow and give you the push that you need!
Feel free to write to me at email@example.com
Today early in the morning I had a conversation with one of my good friends. Well, it was mostly about him crying and complaining that nobody cares about him and that he is tired of walking alone and all those rants that even you often go about too! So I thought I should share with you what I told him because all of us need to hear this and understand this for own development!
First thing first, Nobody Cares about your dreams, all they think about is their ROI on your dreams. For example Parents: How will you run this house with that much money, life partner: I do not think we can have a stable life with this passion of yours, etc etc!
The point is people will try to find their comfort zone in your dreams, and if they won’t be able to find it, they are going to reject, deny and lower your dream!
You know yourself better than others, you know what is good and bad for you! You know who is good and bad for you and you know what is the good bad IN you! Do not wait for a motivator to come and tell you to start working on your dream, or to come and tell you why self-discipline is important or tell you why drugs are bad and you must not do them!
It’s your dream, it’s your passion and it must be your brain too! Set in the value system of your life, the value system of your dream, of your business and of your relationship with others! bringing in the self-discipline does not mean you are free, it rather means that unlike others you know what is important for your own growth and that it is the only thing that will help you to be true to yourself!
Life is what you make of it guys! You can either sit and complain or get up and get going. Either of them will decide where will you be 10years from now. So choose wisely!
NOBODY CARES ABOUT YOU, YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE YOU NEED TO GROW!
I was 6 when I learned about friendship
I was 7 when I learned about love
I was 8 when I learned about forever
I was 9 when I learned about marriage
I was 10 when I learned about Fights
I was 11 when I learned about goodbyes
I was 12 when I learned about separations
I was 13 when I learned about tears of pain
I was 14 when I learned there is a world outside
I was 15 when I learned about heart breaks
I was 16 when I learned about the reality of life
I was 17 when I discovered myself
I was 18 when I understood myself
I was 19 when I found out how important it is to love my own self
I was 20 when I started dreaming and setting life goals
I was 21 when my priority list started with ‘I’
I was 22 when I became a fighter, a fighter for my own dreams
I am 23, and I am wearing an armor, holding a sword and willing to go against the whole damn world
for my small dream of touching the sky!
for I know I am way beyond these small obstacles!
and I believe in my self
and my ability to do so!
I have learned to get up with more strength after every little fall!
This is me, raw, real and rarely common!
I am obsessed with ‘I’ because if I am not, nobody else will!
I hope you are too!
Have you ever have had that midnight craving for food? Have you ever went out of your way to pamper your food cravings? Have you ever thought what food your heart is craving?
According to me the one food that every person craves a lot is LOVE! Honestly speaking, Every person has his own definition, meaning and most importantly emotions connected to this simple word called love. Me being me, I write a lot about love in form of poetry, articles, blogs and I have been asked to define love for the equal number of times! And for me, love has only one definition, ‘The Food That we Crave The most!’
Love is the light of your empty roads! It guides you through the darkest paths and keeps your heart warm during the coldest nights! Love has the power the heal. and love certainly has the power to change you forever!
When I write about love I do not restrict it to the Love two lovers share. The love can be between any two entities or individuals!
You work hard because you LOVE your job or your dream and you wish to become something in your life and you want to achieve a certain goal in life. You take out time from your busy schedule because you love your family, your kids or maybe even your pets! You read, draw, play sport or video game because you love doing it!
We tend to plan our day around the things that we love. It becomes the center of our little universe, it is what we crave for and work for!
Love is love! It can be of any type and for anyone.
This is something that I had written in my diary for love for your own self!
P.S: Above all kinds of love, there is self-love!
Today I want to give you people some food for thought! Something that I have been stuck with for a very long period of time. Honestly speaking, this should have been the easiest question to answer ever and my lack of knowledge about my own self-makes it almost impossible to figure things out and to find the middle of the argument inside my head!
The Question is:
What is my larger purpose in life?
I am in college at the present moment trying to figure out the best business idea, trying to figure out the way to become a zillionaire, trying to figure out the way to become the businessman I always wanted to be. But the only difficulty in choosing one out of the 1000s of available groundbreaking options is my lack of self-knowledge.
I do not know what is that one thing in my life that I want to do! I do not know what is that one thing in my life that will give me happiness and satisfaction beyond worldly pleasures! And honestly speaking I do not know if money is really what I want!
I have been running in circles and trying to find an end to this never-ending chase of the ‘Right Idea.’ There have been times where I have been randomly going from left to right to the front and then back again and have called this chaotic run a journey so that if not me at least people looking at me can call this a journey!
But one thing I have gained in this Chaos is self-awareness. At this moment while I sit here writing this blog I am completely aware of my chaos, about my question and about my ‘journey.’ And I am sure that down the line I will find my end goal and my larger purpose!
For now, I want to write, communicate and express. I want to connect to people not to network with them for business but to help them and most importantly, myself grow from within! I want to re-define the concept of emotions in this growing robotic world!
What do you guys Feel? Have you too been a living Chaos, running left, right and middle to find the right path?
Write to me about your story of this Chaotic journey @ firstname.lastname@example.org